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Sex Tip: Toys (Part 1)

Sex toy use, much like masturbation, can be a very private and secretive behavior. However, they can also be a source of shared pleasure for both you and your partner(s). That being said, there are many different angles one needs to focus on when deciding on a sex toy or adding another toy to your [...]

Sex Tip: Breaking Up

While we have stressed the importance of open and honest communication, keeping the flame burning, and defining a relationship on your own terms, unfortunately (or fortunately), break-ups happen.  The first half of this week’s article will address if you are the one ending a relationship. And in the wise words of Neil Sedaka, “breaking up [...]

Sex Tip: Monogamy

This week, we will address Monogamy, which can go hand-in-hand with a previous article we have written about maintaining long term relationships.  In addition to issues surrounding monogamy, this week’s article will give you a few ideas about how to keep that spark between you and your partner. While popular media may portray gay and lesbian [...]

Sex Tip: Relationships

In this Better Boink Sex Tip, we are going to talk about how to maintain a long term relationship.  While it can be fun to date around and test the romantic waters, finding a long term partner can be just as fun.  Moreover, long term relationships offer both partners stability, happiness, and life satisfaction. It is no [...]

Sex Tip: Attraction

We are going to start this article discussing the chemistry of love! What makes us attracted to someone when we first see them?  The answer isn’t so simple—any combination of factors might draw us to another person. Let’s be honest, we often don’t like to say we are interested in someone because of their looks.  [...]

Sex Tip: Three-ways (Part 3)

This is the last part of our 3 part installment discussing three0ways.  This week, we’ll be tackling more of the sexual health aspects of engaging in a group experience. Depending on the activities in which you engage, taking part in sexual activity with more than one person at a time increases the changes of transmission [...]

Sex Tip: Three-ways (Part 2)

Well, here we are… once again.  And in keeping in line with our theme, we are on to Threesomes, Part 2.  So gird your loins, Better Boink readers and let’s get started. First things first, while we here at Better Boink understand that three-ways are not the standard nor a common sexual behavior, we are [...]

Sex Tip: Three-ways (Part 1)

Let’s talk about three-ways.  For this article, we will be discussing three-ways when two of the participants are in a relationship.  Also known as polyamorous or open relationships, having more than two persons engaging in intimate acts can elicit plenty of concerns, questions, rules, and social navigation. So what does an open relationship look like?  [...]

Sex Tip: Body Massages

Let’s talk about body massages.  This is an often overlooked sex play activity that can get both partners in the mood.  Massages are also a great way to learn about your partner’s body and how it responds to touch, both sensual and non-sensual.  No matter what your sexual preferences are, very few things beat a [...]

Q: I don’t have a ton of anal sex, but when I do, I usually bottom–and I just can’t seem to be able to come (or often, even stay hard) from it. Is there anything I should try?

A: Thank you for your question! Issues with orgasm/ejaculation are very common for men of any age, race, and/or sexual orientation.  Let’s dissect this question one point at a time. First and foremost, despite our own notions and society’s thoughts, anal sex is not the most common sexual behavior for men who have sex with [...]